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⛓️‍💥🛡️“No More Sleeping with the Enemy: Breaking Professional Soul Ties with Performative Power🦠🧬”

Hello Lovelies, I'm unleashing. I'm releasing! Letting it all out and go as I continue to FLOW!  No More Sleeping with the Enemy Part 2: The Cost of Professional Soul Ties By Lady Erin Love I’ve done it too many times. You probably have too. Showed up with excellence. Delivered brilliance. Covered cracks that weren’t mine to fill. Spoke up while others stayed quiet. Stayed when I should’ve exited. Why? Because the mission looked like mine. Because the leaders looked like me. Because the dream felt familiar. But here’s the truth: I was sleeping with the enemy. Not literally—energetically. Contractually. Strategically. Emotionally. Spiritually. And it almost cost me everything. The Seduction of Being “Chosen” There’s something intoxicating about being invited into the inner circle of an organization “on the rise.” You’re told your voice matters. Your leadership is needed. Your ideas are revolutionary. Until you actually start leading. Until your clarity expos...

🌱🤫The Cost of Silence: When Advocacy Turns into Accountability⛓️‍💥🪓

Hello Lovelies, Part 1: Behind the Mission Statement By Lady Erin Love For nearly eight months, I poured my expertise, heart, and strategy into an organization with a bold public mission. I joined not as a junior hire, but as a senior leader brought in to build structure, funding systems, and a sustainable path forward. I did that—and far more. But what I couldn’t predict was the pattern that followed: a slow unraveling of integrity behind closed doors. A silence that speaks louder than any slogan. A cost too many women, especially Black women, are asked to carry in exchange for proximity to purpose. When Passion Becomes a Liability I led global development strategy, built a funding pipeline with over 50 qualified opportunities, and coordinated more than 20 submissions to world-class funders. I filled gaps left by disengaged leadership. I activated dormant centers for profitability. I mentored, trained, onboarded and led consultants. I raised urgent concerns when internal dysf...

🏗️Building Castles 🏰with No Foundation🕳️: A Strategist’s Journey Inside a Global Startup

Hello Lovelies, I walked into the opportunity with wide eyes and a ready spirit. A startup claim to have ambitions to shift systems and integrate equity. On paper, it was everything I’d been preparing for—fusing my background in chasing disasters, public-private partnerships, and sustainable development. My role? To build the engine while the car was already speeding down the highway. So I thought!🥴 And I jumped right in. I showed up with strategy decks, grant roadmaps, government engagement playbooks, brand positioning language, development targets, and cross-continental funding relationships. Within weeks, I produced more than most teams deliver in six months: grant applications submitted, strategic partnerships initiated, core messages clarified, and team members mobilized. The momentum was real. But then came the reality. Behind the ambition was something much more fragile: leaders who were enamored by titles, unready for discipline, and allergic to accountability. The vision was ...

🌎🫂Pick a State. 🏡This is Homeland Security: Leading the Shift in Resilience with Vision and Alignment

Greetings Lovelies, I’m taking in ALL that’s shifting while sitting in Kingdom Territory. For nearly two decades, I’ve had the honor of sitting at the crossroads where federal priorities meet local realities. From launching logistics operations in the aftermath of Katrina to leading global transformation strategies across continents, I’ve remained committed to one unwavering principle: alignment creates momentum. Now, with FEMA’s new direction—streamlining disaster recovery, accelerating access to aid, and elevating state and local leadership—we are entering a pivotal season in homeland security. And Virginia is ground zero for what’s next. Having served at both federal and local levels—and knowing my home roots—I understand how to translate policy into power and connection into community impact. We grow people, business, and community around my way. The Role of Resilience Has Changed—So Must We Gone are the days when federal agencies alone held the keys to disaster recovery. FEMA’s ne...